Labels:text | screenshot | font OCR: PAGE 3 COUPLE'S ANALYSIS ASKING QUESTIONS When asking questions, don't do it in a heavy-handed manner. For example, don't say, "You look as if you might get off on a little mild spanking in bed." Instead, use a more indirect approach, such as: "I get the feeling you might like it if I spanked you very lightly when we make love next time. What do you think?" And if you are very uncertain about how your partner might react to even such a tentative question, you could precede it by saying, "There's something sexual I really want to talk about, but I'm finding it very hard. I'm afraid you might get the wrong idea about me." Most partners, on hearing this, will want to know what it is that is so difficult and will offer reassurance. You can then follow up by saying, "This is just a