ocr: DIANA'S HISTORY IANA was a perfectionist who felt very wounded by her husband Monty's rejection ofher. Although she longed for a new relationship, she was scared of risking her emotions again. "Every time I think about dating a new man, Ifeel terrified,' 93 she confessed. "Monty spent a lot of time telling me how awful I was in bed. How does anyone ever risk finding out what it's like with someone else when the upshot might be to face that again? "Monty used to accuse me, among other things, ofl being very passive in bed, andit's true that I was passive with him. But I've often tantasized abou ...