ocr: PAGE 3 COUPLES ANALYSIS itto yourself?" Alan asked. In subsequent lovemaking sessions he asked her to show and help him learn what she liked. Although this accelerated Maya's response, the couple needed encouragement since the improvement, on both sides, took time. NON-GENITAL SEXUALITY In addition to explaining ejaculation control and ways to stimulate, I recommended that Alan should learn to: focus on aspects ofsexuality other than the purely genital ones. He then appreciated, almost for the first time, the touching, stroking, caressing, and cuddling side ofsex. With Maya, he took turns carr ...