ocr: PAGE 2 INDIVIDUALS ANALYSIS her words carefully to avoid misunderstanding or starting a fight. She could do this in four ways: by remembering that her needs were as important as his; by explaining how she felt (using a tormat such as "Ifeel unhappy about... 33 rather than accusing him ofdoing or not doing something); by asking him for constructive suggestions as to how change might be built into the relationship; and by asking if he would consider suggestions she offered. ARRANGINGTIME TOGETHER Ihose suggestions might consist of a system of booking herselfinto his calendar for a reasonable num ...