ocr: Sometimes problems arise through our own misunderstanding. This can happen if we aren't communicating with a parmer in a way that they can identify with. You need to learn how to get onto your partner's wavelength, and to express yourselfin terms that they will understand, so that they grant you their full attention and listen to you seriously. It's up I to you to find out what that wavelength is. Appreciating the importance ofyour sexual well-being can be very valuable, since it affects not only your contidence, but the way you feel both physically and emotionally.