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- Jan. 22, 1990: Can A Priest Be A Husband?
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- <history>
- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1990
- Jan. 22, 1990 A Murder In Boston
- </history>
- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- RELIGION, Page 72
- Can a Priest Be a Husband?
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- <body>
- <p>Yes--if he is a Catholic convert from Episcopalianism
- </p>
- <p>By Richard N. Ostling
- </p>
- <p> No one could accuse Pope John Paul II of being soft on
- celibacy. The Roman Pontiff frowns upon even hypothetical
- discussions about relaxing the church's centuries-old ban on
- married priests. Yet this is the same Pope who in 1980 approved
- an experiment in which 43 married men have become Roman
- Catholic priests in the U.S. The most recent was ordained in
- New York just last week. (Some 20 married converts have become
- priests elsewhere in the West since Pope Pius XII allowed the
- first such dispensation in 1951.) Although church officials have
- sought to avoid publicity about the unusual American program,
- it has been chronicled in a new book, The Pastoral Provisions:
- Married Catholic Priests (Sheed & Ward; 152 pages; $13.95), by
- priest-sociologist Joseph H. Fichter of Loyola University in
- New Orleans.
- </p>
- <p> Not surprisingly, the influx of married priests has met
- resistance within the ranks of the Catholic clergy. Some of the
- loudest complaints have come not from traditionalists who think
- celibacy might be undermined but from liberal priests and nuns.
- One reason: the U.S. converts are mostly theological
- conservatives who left the clergy of the Episcopal Church
- because of that denomination's leftward drift on liturgy,
- doctrine and discipline--particularly the Episcopalians'
- decision in 1976 to admit women priests. Also the wife of one
- priestly convert told Fichter she had run into resentment from
- nuns who wanted to become priests.
- </p>
- <p> Many Catholic clergymen are especially hostile because they
- find it unfair for the church to cut a special deal for these
- 43 while it bars the return of thousands of men who left the
- priesthood to marry. San Antonio's Father Christopher G.
- Phillips, the first married priest to head a U.S. parish,
- rejects the double-standard complaint, noting that the
- ex-priests have broken vows taken voluntarily to observe
- lifelong celibacy. Phillips reports that reactions he has
- received from Catholic colleagues run the gamut from "great joy
- to utter disdain."
- </p>
- <p> Fichter thinks that the number of married priests might have
- been greater had Catholic bishops proved to be more
- encouraging. As it is, a candidate for reordination as a
- Catholic priest must undergo an arduous process. Besides filing
- 13 documents, the prospective convert must take additional
- theology instruction and endure detailed inquiries into his
- psychological makeup and the health of his marriage. One
- requirement, controversial to Episcopalians, is that each
- clergyman convert must undergo ordination at the hands of a
- Catholic bishop, an unwanted reminder that Rome rejects the
- validity of Episcopal priestly orders.
- </p>
- <p> "They sure don't make it easy," remarked one of the priests
- interviewed by Fichter, who quotes all of his sources
- anonymously. The various steps took one of the candidates 6 1/2
- years. And the living is not easy either. Recalled a convert
- who had earned $50,000 a year in the Episcopal clergy: "I went
- into debt and lost my credit rating" while awaiting
- reordination. "For the first time in our lives," said one of
- the priests' wives, "we knew what it means to live on the edge
- of poverty."
- </p>
- <p> Nor does the money flow in after reordination. The
- Phillipses support their family of five children on the
- standard priest's stipend of $500 a month plus the husband's
- pay as part-time chaplain of a Carmelite convent. Cash is not
- the only problem in making the adjustment. One wife told
- Fichter that parishioners, accustomed to celibate clergy, are
- very demanding and "don't really give much thought to the
- priest's family." One convert admitted he favors retaining the
- celibacy rule because "quite honestly, I think that the
- personal difficulties and family pressures outweigh the
- benefits" of the married priesthood.
- </p>
- <p> Although most lay Catholics are accepting of married
- priests, Fichter writes, the Vatican skittishly restricts their
- contact with ordinary U.S. parishioners. Most of the 43 work
- in such careers as teaching or chaplaincies and perform regular
- parish work only on temporary weekend assignments. That means
- that a priest's wife and children do not live in a regular
- parish rectory and usually do not attend the church where he
- celebrates Mass. Nonetheless, when families do mingle with
- parishioners, said one wife, "people get used to you after a
- while."
- </p>
- <p> Phillips is among the handful of married priests who work
- in far different circumstances. He is assigned full time to Our
- Lady of the Atonement Church, one of six special U.S. Catholic
- congregations originating with groups which, like the priests,
- left the Episcopal Church. In these so-called Anglican-Use
- parishes, ex-Episcopalians are permitted a Mass that is almost
- identical with one in the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer.
- </p>
- <p> Although the U.S. bishops appear to play down the
- Anglican-Use arrangement for fear of fraying ecumenical ties
- with the Episcopalians, this is, in Fichter's view, a "liberal"
- step that amounts to a Vatican "admission that the beliefs and
- practices of traditional Anglicanism have been basically the
- beliefs and practices of the Roman Church." Fichter considers
- the Anglican-Use parishes a far more important innovation than
- married clergy. This development, he contends, "may be called
- the first significant ecumenical breakthrough in the relations
- between Anglicans and Romans."
- </p>
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